Is it permissible to marry in Muharram, and when should the walima be held?
Summary
The questioner asked whether it is allowed to marry in the month of Muharram or on the day after Eid ul-Adha, and whether the nikah and walima may be held on the same day. Mufti Ebrahim Desai answered that Islam sets no prohibition on marrying in any particular month, and Muharram, being one of the sacred months, is a permissible time. The walima is a sunnah meal that is best held after the marriage is consummated. If it is held earlier, it is still valid. The reply does not go into other customs about wedding dates.
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